“In threatening and survival situations, we look for evidence of hope – a small sign that the situation may improve. When an abuser/controller shows the victim some small kindness, even though it is to the abusers benefit as well, the victim interprets that small kindness as a positive trait of the captor.” ~Dr. Carver (Love … Continue reading 2020 – Trust Your Self Above ALL Others
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2020 – Step 94: The Syncing Feeling
"The frightening thing about middle age is the knowledge that you'll grow out of it." ~Doris Day (HBD) Moral Hazard. Be Presence. "All" Human is sharing a "moment in time." Recalibration - Resilience - Improvisation - Adaptability - Integration - Assimilation. Collective Soul. The Mother Principle. Human is not divided - Human is separated. For today … Continue reading 2020 – Step 94: The Syncing Feeling
Step 345: Full Circle
"Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less." ~Marie Curie Seasons change. Life magnified. Preparation - Temperament - Motive. Trusted Kin. The transfer of power from one generation to another is evident. Time Magazine's "Person of the … Continue reading Step 345: Full Circle
Step 41: Think Outside the Box?
"How should we like it were stars to burn with a passion for us we could not return? If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving one be me." ~W.H. Auden Silence speaks volumes. Shhh - Listen. Choices made today come back up for review March 24th and April 14th. Reset boundaries - especially … Continue reading Step 41: Think Outside the Box?